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Keith:
Civil discussions = good.
But not always easy to find.
So, I appreciate the tone of this back-and-forth.
Dana
=)
I don't agree with a single word you have to say... but that is why America is a cool place to live.
Good luck with it... strive for what you believe.
Keith:
1. Could you cite some instances -- specific to prostitution -- where individuals' privacy and civil rights have been violated when they have been "merely walking down the street, standing on the sidewalk, or conversing with another individual?" I'm just curious if this is a common occurrence.
2. I find it unacceptable that the definition of a "victimless crime" might include a young woman being brought into Boston illegally by human traffickers, held against her will and kept under control through "rapes, forced abortions, beatings with belts and beer bottles." (source: http://www.humantrafficking.org/updates/515) And, the men who are using these prostitutes put their spouses or other sexual partners at risk for STDs, regardless of whether they use a condom. (HPV and Herpes are easily spread by skin-to-skin contact.)
3. In Nevada, where prostitution is legal, there were 1,021 rapes per 100,000 residents in 2009. In Massachusetts, where it's illegal, there were 25.8. (of course, this *does* only account for recorded rapes) Source: http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/uscrime.htm
4. Maybe law enforcement should focus on putting the johns in jail and not the prostitutes.
5. My response to people who say that sex is just a "service" is usually to ask them if they would feel the same way about their daughter, wife, girlfriend, or mother performing this service. Again, I don't buy the "it's a lifestyle choice that an empowered woman can make for herself" argument that I often hear. Or, better said, I would if there weren't a clear link between childhood sexual abuse and prostitution. According to one study, "Victims of child sexual abuse are 27.7 times more likely to be arrested for prostitution as adults than non-victims. Some victims become sexual abusers or prostitutes because they have a difficult time relating to others except on sexual terms." (Widom, 1995).
6. There's a market for child pornography and child prostitutes, too. And men with both the "desire for" and the "need to use" both.
I find it hard to believe that anyone would equate the ability to buy a drink openly with the ability to use another human being's body sexually. These days free, consensual sex is easily found on craigslist or okcupid. If money changing hands is part of the thrill, do a little role-playing.
Tough subject. I agree with Susan, though. Not likely to fly anytime soon. Thank goodness. Legalizing marijuana, now that's another story....
sorry man, but you just wont win over an the public with this concept.
http://www.prostitutionresearch.com/laws/000234.html
we need to fix a LOT of things about our culture, the inability to hire a prostitute at will is not very high on the list (if at all).
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