When you do something wrong, are you willing to admit it? Some people seem to live as if they never do anything wrong - or should I say they don't ever say they are sorry. Others deny that what they have done is wrong. They simply cannot admit it. A number of others choose to rationalize what they may have done. They are always explaining away their actions or motives. Still others hide and cover their sinful or unfitting activity.

The Bible tells us a better way. We need to learn to clearly, simply, specifically and honestly admit our wrongs. It says that "If we confess our sins [God] is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9) We are also told to "Confess our sins to each other and pray for each other so that we can be healed." (James 5:16) We will do well to honestly face up to what we have wrongly done.

If you want your confession to be received, and if you really want to change, be honest and "go low." Clearly admit what you have done. Don't stop there; describe what you would rather do, or how you would rather behave. This describes your repentance - your change of mind and/or action. If you don't know exactly how to make the changes that are necessary, don't pretend you do know what to do or blindly hope that some magical change will simply happen. Instead, admit your ignorance, and humbly ask for help. This demonstrates a contrite heart. Both God and people are drawn to humble penitence.

Denial and defensiveness are slipcovers for hardness of heart. Honest, humble repentance, however, is the uncovering of a soft heart before God and people. When was the last time that you admitted your wrong activity in such a way that those who heard could see/feel you humble, teachable heart?

Learning to "Go Low" with you,
Pastor Tom
tgriffith@rolcboston.org

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