Do you ever struggle with whether you are good enough?  You may ask, "Good enough for what?"  The exact content or context of the question might not matter.  The question for many is a deep (and often relentless and harping) question of identity.  Are you good enough?

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We all want to get better, don't we?  In fact most of us are trying in most areas of our lives to get better.  It's part of our cultural way of thinking.  We think things are supposed to work better, faster and more precisely.  In the recesses of our minds, most of us even believe we are getting faster and stronger and smarter - and that aging is not really affecting us that much.…